Gentlemen still bring flowers. Romance begins with consent. Then we can entertain the endless opportunities of terrible life decisions together.

What I offer: a sense of adventure, playful sarcasm, intelligence, and relentless curiosity. I am voraciously passionate, very much employed as a professional geek, nerd dad of 4, creative. Less fartsy, more artsy. Early riser. Brain all day. Neurodeviant (I like my term better). Subtitles engaged. Looking to explore from an ENM perspective.

Wants to want as much as to be wanted.

California sober. Devout Atheist. My faith is in critical thinking, anointed by peer review, sanctified via evidentiary data. Well equipped with all the latest vaxxes. Clean bill of health, verified annually.

Down for DMs. Chat works great, and I tend to respond in the evenings when I can focus on you.

You (Ideally): equally armed with curves and daring. Willing to share your narrative and your fantasies.

I am more along the lines of a “Pleasure Dom”. Switching is fun, too.

XConfessions App (great for kink discussion topics) : KESJS

If you’re using LLMs, be prepared for a Turing test. Fraudsters: I don’t bounce for Snap, the people I know and trust use Signal, and I am absolutely not interested in your coin investment strategies.

zero tolerance for no description, single photo, fraud bait.