So I'm looking for someone intelligent (the most attractive quality), sexy, submissive and kinky. Have tried the usual dating stuff but looking for something extra. I am preferably looking for a long-term relationship, but - full disclosure - I already have a partner so am not looking for that unless something polyamorous develops naturally over time. She is fully aware of this and we have also experience with swinging, so if you're looking for "the one" here, I'm not them.

Being dominant to me doesn't mean being an arsehole, or starting conversations by being aggressive - at the end of the day everyone is here for connection and pleasure, it's a matter of working out if that's going to work between any two individuals, right?

If you're looking for someone who's dominant, intelligent, amusing (so I'm told), kinky and reliable, then I tick all those boxes. None of my interests are exclusive or essential, I'm very adaptable (but not submissive if that's your thing, sorry, just not my nature).

Nothing shit/ related, or drawing substantial or permanent marks from someone. I'm up to discuss most other things, the barrier to them is variable - just ask.