Hi, I'm Blue Bird.
I am trying to keep my kink life relatively contained, but I have made a good few forays into edgeplay and want to learn how to carry out kink in a way in which I have more agency over the power exchanged, as I have a loaded past and a people-pleasing disposition that have banged me up a bit for the name of masochism and obsession.
I'm a woman of fluid expression because I am an abundant person only growing further, and I am learning what I like and don't, what I want and don't, in such adventurous unruliness as to reject a stable identity in favor of being a person in the moment with moments behind me and hopes for the ones ahead of me. I am demiaroace, aegosexual, and reciprosexual--took me some googling to refine all my bases to 3 labels. You can do the same if you care to. I range from tomboy to dolled-up and pride myself in being well dressed.
I am a natural nurturer and deeply enjoy both mommy domming as well as caring for littles, but have little tolerance for *** of power or grooming, and as such little tolerance for the sexualization of regression.
States of mind and relative ability to consent are big points of conversation in negotiating any scene or dynamic for me, as well as generally consent to any sort of physical interaction. I am a largely touch-repulsed person, and kink and sexuality are far more emotional and mental things than physical to me.
I still have to think we would look hot together--but together is a key word, this is a subjective aesthetic standard over any specific appearance, as I find myself more attracted to aesthetics, thoughts, ideas, and actions than I do any describable set of physical traits. It's about energy. Sex is a sacred thing, I'm the spiritual sort, but that's a whole conversation.
My personality type is ENFJ-T (The Protagonist), and for my fellow astrologers: Virgo Sun, Cancer Moon, and Saggitarius Rising. I do lean to my submissive side, a puppy sub by petname of Bunny.
Continued education on Kink Lifestyle and Health mandatory, being on the same page is key, even if one book is just accurately referencing the other. Respect is something that should be strengthened with experiencing a person.
If you want to know more, just shoot me a message. There's a lot more to know.

***, Unprotected Sex, Uncle/Cousin types of fauxcest, abdl, giving fellatio, giving rimming