# Guess who's back

profile refresh nov 2024:


A bit about me
ENFP.
Love languages: Touch and words of affirmation (aka praise whore, cuddle slut).
Submissive.
Age preference 35-50

Imagine the sense of humor of a 12-year-old boy meeting the wisdom of a sage—it’s a chaotic cocktail, but it works, mostly. Somehow, I slipped into MENSA, yet I still can’t do my times tables or navigate a spreadsheet, and I’ve never dared to attempt Sudoku.

I’m equal parts joy, childlike wonder, and deep wisdom. Fierce-hearted and loyal to a fault, I’ll walk through fire for those I love. My determination to see the best in people is both my kryptonite and my superpower. A hopeless romantic, I can fall in love with the idea of falling in love, and I’m equally at home dancing my legs off at a gig or ugly crying at the beauty of a classical concert.

I’ve poured a lot into my personal growth and thrive around others with a positive growth mindset. Entrepreneurial to the core, I run my own business and have dabbled in starting a multitude of others—some wildly successful, others spectacularly not. I also home educate my two using a “child-led” approach, which makes our home a happy whirlwind of laughter, curiosity, and spontaneous adventures. My mission is to raise balanced young men with big hearts and free spirits.

Let's Get Down to Business
Sure, this isn’t exactly Tinder, but a girl can dream about finding herself a Dominant, right?

I’m looking for a hidden gem—a man with depth, emotional maturity, and the ability to truly see me beyond the photo gallery. If you think a gristly, turgid dick pic is going to impress me… you’re already out. I’m searching for someone who embodies the core qualities of a true Dominant: courage, leadership, self-awareness, emotional maturity, responsibility, confidence, decisiveness, humility, respect, and great communication. Nobody’s perfect, but if you’ve invested in your personal growth as I have, we might just be on the same wavelength.

Ultimately, I’m hoping to find someone who can blend D/s with vanilla—a best friend and a lover. Someone who wants to hike mountains, watch sunsets, binge a box set, and share all the beautiful, messy little moments of life as well as get up to some kinky shizz together.

Kink
I’m relatively new to the scene, but I’m excited to explore! Here’s what I know so far:

I’m giggly and mischievous, but I don’t necessarily resonate with the identity of a brat. I might giggle when I’m in trouble, or on the spanking bench, or in church, or a myriad of other times one probably shouldn’t. But ultimately, I take pleasure in being good and I’m an absolute praise slut.

I love power exchange and will follow the right man wherever he wishes to lead. My preference leans toward the sensual: deep, connected intimacy, bondage, teasing, sensory deprivation, and the like. I’m curious about primal play and Tantra but haven’t ventured into those realms yet. Dressing up? Hell Yes. Roleplay? Probably not—I’d probably get lost in a fit of giggles.

I enjoy being an exhibitionist (within the bounds of consent, of course) and light impact, especially flogging, but I’m not a masochist. I’m turned on by someone who understands the mind and its intricacies far more than gadgets like wands or fucking machines. To me, a clitoral orgasm is fast food; I want someone who can take me on a journey to the stars and fuck me all the way into orbit.

I’m not into , , or objectification, and I value a partner who shares my respect for boundaries and consent. I want a man who sees me as the prize I am—just as I will see him.

I do not switch. I won’t even kill a spider so you’ve got no chance of me Domming you. I hesitate to say this but my gut feeling is that the type of Dominant I’m looking for would never switch either.

A note on limits
Limits are evolving all the time so best to have a discussion about this but if you're heavily into , fuck dolls, , , ***, or anything on the extreme end of bdsm it probably isn't going to be a good match. If you send me photos of your penis I will take that as consent to send it on to my besties to rate it (laugh at it). My preference is for men between the ages of 35-50 and within a reasonable travelling distance of Shropshire so i can actually spend time with him. Finally I’m monogamous, so straight single guys only please.

May the odds be ever in your favour!

Watersports, poop, medical play, electro play. illegal and immoral things- kids, incest, etc
I have lots of soft limits - it just depends on how well I know you and where we are playing.