Please note: I will NOT reply to you if you don’t live in the New York City area, and I will NOT reply if you ask for $$ or to chat on another app.

Short term, long term with women or couples.
Completely new to BDSM but have been long interested. My expartner pegged me once or twice and I enjoyed that. Tied each other other up gently and caressed. Recently I went to a club here and allowed a woman to tie me to a post and whip my back and ass (had pants on; naked back). I really liked it. It was arousing. I'm interested in this kind of arousal and reciprocation. And the ability to use the "safe words" and power and control and submission.

Desires and Fantasies
to learn more about BDSM
to be tied naked to a post and whipped, at different levels of intensity, and then to be gently soothed
to be pegged
to explore ropes and tying each other up (woman or couples) and blindfoling or being blindfolded , teasing a bound woman
exploring the boundaries of roughness, power, submission