I’m a 37 year old female. New to the lifestyle. My husband isn’t engaged in the lifestyle much.

He doesn’t know I’m on here exploring. I’m at a point where I’ve tried everything to get him to desire me and he just doesn’t. Sex barely once a week is not enough.

Looking to learn more from an experienced Dom. A Dom that can tap into my intellectual side first. Talking dirty and ting arousing scenarios in my mind. I have a huge voice and sound kink.

In my daily life I’m sorely missing being treated femininely and being desired. I want to feel like a woman. All day every day I have to be a boss bitch handling the day to day and managing my family’s needs. I crave someone else to be in control and selflessly catering to my needs for once.

I’m extremely turned on by deep masculine husky voices, being kissed from behind on my neck/light biting, and feeling and overpowered. I prefer taller men. I’m 5’6”.

Physical strength is a major turn on. I want to be man handled at the right moment but tenderly seduced into submission.

My mind needs to be seduced before anything can happen. I’m an intellectual person and stimulating my mind with quick wit and banter will win me over. I’m not basic. So messaging do you want to fuck or meet doesn’t work.

I need to feel safe. Trusting someone with this kind of lifestyle is important and necessary to make it pleasurable and safe for all parties involved.

If you message know I’m shy at first. Giving detail on what you are looking for and what you can provide in my situation would be helpful.

Roleplaying abduction, CNC, being bound and tied up from behind is one of my desires. Feeling *** and fighting to give up control is what I need. I need to let go and let my body relax and let someone be in control for a while.

Hard limits:
Feces
Urine
Pet play
Slave play
Being called a bitch

Needles
Knives
No video, photos…etc

Need 100% discretion. Not looking to change anyone’s life and don’t need mine complicated as well.

Prefer someone that can host.

Anal
Fisting
Needles
Cutting
Pet play
Knives
Urine/Feces

Slave play
Videos, photos etc…