I'm a midwest girl lost in the south

I don't do hookups. And I have low self esteem, so I won't believe your compliments. Many have tried and failed to correct this behavior. My brat side views this as a win over Doms.

I am very short and a sucker for men over 6', however that is not a requirement. I also go crazy over a pair of steely blue eyes or vivid green eyes.

Non-kink info: I'm a huge nerd, love board/tabletop/video games. Avid horror fan. And I crochet.

I've been part of the lifestyle for a very long time. I had Someone partially train me in protocol, but it's been a while and I need a refresher. I am a firm believer that neither the Dom nor sub is in control. It is shared through each other willingly giving their Dominance/submission. I am very much into impact and rope, but have many other interests. I have been involved in mono and poly, bedroom relationships to TPE.

I'm looking for my ltr Dom. I crave the stability of someone to help me when I am overwhelmed and the structure being a sub. In return, I offer my submission. It is not something that can be demanded at the first meeting or talks. I am my own person until we decide to start a dynamic.

I do not give out my phone number or bank account information. I only do outside communication through snap or telegram

No , , or shit. Not into receiving piercings, tattoos, branding, or needles. Anything negative about weight