If my 'single' toggle is off, that means I am already talking to a few people and don't want to involve more, so please be patient and don't text while it is off, wait for your turn persay.

Check again in the future if I have 'Single' on, feel free to text me if it is. If I am no longer available completely, I will fully remove everything here.
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Only try to connect with me if you intend to meet if our interests match. I am not looking for anything with male subs.
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It says trans but more accurate is genderfluid (my gender range: tomboy/androgynous to girl; depends on setting and mood). I have an amab body and my body is good for both male and female partners (talking about body types, not genders). I am a very dynamic person, mix of introvert and extrovert (but more introvert rn), I like a lot of things, and I would like a partner that gives me new experiences (including outside play session) and is open to new perspectives. I like wholesome, goofy, and cheesy stuff. I am very genuine, sincere, and honest. My primary relationship and love preference is cis girls and afab people; not my goal here but open to connecting in that direction also and see how it goes. With guys it is mostly the fun and kinky part, casual, and less vanilla wholesome love (better description below).
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I am here to explore practical d/s dynamic and activities, and also friends (not particularly fwb) among other things. I will figure out what I find comfortable as we go; I have some knowledge about it but no practical experience. I am looking for a committed semi-serious dynamic/relationship, (there can be a casual vanilla side to it if it feels right and could be more like fwb outside of d/s dynamic), exceptions apply to our personal primary relationships and poly dynamics. We build it from strangers to serious over time just like any other romantic relationship. Preferably male dominants, but female dominants are also welcomed. I prefer a semi-soft dominant who is playful and understands when to take control or tease or push me to try something new (that doesn't conflict with the limits), when not to. I need someone who respects my life outside the dom/sub relationship. I am open to ddlg type stuff, but likely I won't feel comfortable calling you Daddy/mommy because it weirds me out. We will have to keep the relationship discrete.
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In d/s dynamic and kink I am a sub-leaning switch. In normal life I simply don't care about being submissive or dominant, I just live and be authentic, however, I am soft and empathetic but sometimes may come off as too intense or direct, but please ask for clarity to avoid misunderstanding. I am not actively dominant but I have an alpha personality (don't confuse it with masculine or feminine or gender in general). My personality is a near perfect balance between feminine and masculine traits with leaning to feminine (I try to avoid negative ones from either side).
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I am a girl in personality but I need support in developing comfort with letting my feminine side out (mostly struggling with finding confidence/comfort in being able to overtly express myself and dressing up). I am hoping I can increase my comfort level over time through my partner's support/guidance. If I am not feeling comfortable in certain settings treat me as tomboy or neutral at those times, as by default I dress like that.
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I would like a dependable partner in the relationship, who can cover things like dates, bdsm/kink stuff, and outfits for dates (because I mostly have only hoodies and tees with shorts or pants) if needed because I am a student and not independent right now; this is unintentional and only for the time being.
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I am looking for a partner who isn't rigid, someone who gives me adventures (metaphorical, literal, and sexual) that keep me excited while also creating a genuine soft comfort space with him/her where I feel secure.
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The following things are a big NO. I am open to exploration outside of what is listed.
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/serious /, unhygienic (, , butthole licking, etc.), and other risky/hazardous stuff.
Manipulation (especially gaslighting, it is a total hard limit and I will cut off immediately).
Non-sexual and demaning words (dirty talk and calling me slutty stuff is ok when we are being sexual but shaming me and stuff like that is not).
Treating me like a slave as part of the dynamic (I am a submissive, not a slave; occasional roleplay is an exception).
Sadomasochism, especially serious kind. Light stuff that doesn't break any limits is ok and enjoyable.
No activity bondage (for example: I am just tied up standing by myself doing nothing).
69 with men.
Posting my photos where I can be recognized in any way or without my consent.
Expecting honorifics before we even know each other or have a relationship.
Pretentious people who think I owe them my submission or anything just for being a submissive (don't take me for granted).

I won't send any photos with my face until I have your basic personal details like your name, proper way to contact you, and we have serious intentions and a plan to meet.
I won't sext with someone I have nothing to do with. I don't feel comfortable with the idea of sexting unless it is in a relationship I have been for a long time.
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Chasity: I don't like it in general. Will for sure not consent to wear regularly and outside sessions/meets, and if we decide that I should try it for meets/play sessions, then I will control it and it will be 'at-will for me'.

Conditional CNC (like wearing something green lights it kind of stuff) is an option once our relationship/dynamic is solid and stable. Hyono stuff that doesn't reduce my mental capacity is something that can be discussed.
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I value clear and honest communication.