Dont mean to offend but alot of these 'kinky' bdsm people seem quite placid and boring to me. I'm on here looking for some fun. Someone who wants to hook up for some nasty, filthy dirty fun. No *** other than maybe a little spanking. But complete filth. Say nasty things, roleplay roles you shouldn't roleplay, risk it outside, touch eachother up on public transport.
I like all sorts of styles on people but I feel like most people who fit the above description aren't walking around in pvc all day advertising themselves as part of the 'bdsm lifestyle'. I'm after those people who live a relatively normal life day to day, but want a wild and adventurous sex life.
ONS are fine but FWB are even better. I'm looking for hookups and friends that don't require tons of commitment for either side.
I will let you know without judgment if it comes up.