I am a creative, smart, driven, passionate man who is mostly in control of my life.

I've been dealing with some adversity related to my health the past few years (if that's an issue leave now) but I am recently transitioning into running my own business and finally after some challenges things are coming together.

Since last year, I have found bdsm and it's been a revelation, something that was calling to me for years but I was closed off to it and for years and pushed this stuff aside thinking I was some kinda perv (i am but little did I know there is a good kinda perv; I have been called agreeable haha!) but I'm a pretty open-minded guy and very understanding and now it all makes sense to me.

I like to understand things on a deep level to give my best and currently, this is a journey of discovery, a learning curve if you will and I am at the beginning but I learn quickly and I adapt. I can be a good friend, a mentor, a guide, at least I hope as I have gained a lot of experience through my own and believe it's possible to take control and pretty much overcome anything as I think I have shown myself.

Right now I'm looking to make new friends and learn more about this but most of all myself. I've got a lot more to say but enough for now! I hope I don't come off as arrogant, I'm not. I'm just straight talking.

This is most definitely a work in progress. One thing I like about kink and BDSM is how it can shine a light on your flaws and character traits in the quest to be a better dom or sub, I admit I never thought personal development would be an aspect of all this but anything that makes you look at your self and reflect and question yourself is a good thing.

Looking forward to meeting and engaging with others in the community, kinkier the better!

Play safe everyone...

Desires and Fantasies
My desire is to find a sub I can grow and learn with. My fantasy is to explore our kinks and fetishes together and fulfill each others needs.