Kind but firm and driven man new to South West and looking to connect for regular meets and sharing a d/s dynamic. Naturally confident/ dominant and looking for real life meets for any level of relationship from casual friends to LTR.
I have a range of experience in bdsm dynamics spanning over 25 years but would still very much identify as learning the art of domination. A huge aspect of that is the understanding of the great gift that is someone's submission and the responsibility of the dom to empathise, nurture, plan, take responsibility, and provide care and sanctuary. All balanced with the structure, rigidity and sadistic basis of such dynamics.
My dom style is mischievously cruel as opposed to rough. I revel in the psychological aspects of servitude, ness, , and the willful yielding of total control to another. Don't get me wrong I can hand out harrowing punishments when called upon but it is not the *** aspect of bdsm which primarily motivates me.
, , non-consent, underage