Looking to explore! But I don't want to do it alone. Like lite bondage, toys, squirters, and lingam massage. Open to pegging, watersports and exhibitionism. I have a smoking fetish (but a non-smoker myself)
Seeking partners to do fun things with.
Including ( but not limited to ):
Leaf ping in Maine
Going to see Six and sleepnomore.com in NYC
Carousing in my old home town of Phila.
Weekend (or longer road trips or plane trips)
Portland OR and a visit to Club Privata
Anything fun you can think up
If I am with you it is because I choose to be with you and not because I need to be with someone, and that is the biggest compliment I can give.
I am a caring and supportive guy looking to do fun adventurous things with, enjoy the company of, learn from, be a mentor to, and spoil, my partner. And depending on my partner(s)' proclivities, I might tie them up, restrain them, hit, whip, insert, vibrate, electrify, or physically bring them pleasure. My biggest requirements I desire from a partner: fun, intelligent, open, curious, truthful, giving and caring. Personality must click.
Exploring ...geographically, physically, intellectually, emotionally, and sexually is probably my most core element.
I am a fairly unique combination of GGG, nice guy, depraved pervert, autodidact, tech polyglot, luddite, Mr. Fixit, renaissance guy, emotionally literate, basic bro. In other words, mostly harmless but loads of fun.
My interests range from music, theater, travel, adventure, scuba, safari, exploring, roads less travelled. I enjoy experiential conferences (wds.fm & Camp GLP), board games, puzzles. and trivia. mystery parties, scavenger hunts, escape rooms.
I love finding great restaurants new and old. Oyamel is my favorite!
I am an independent management and IT consultant. I also trade stocks and options and have real estate holdings. I am a serial entrepreneur and collaborator of ideas, and have founded three startups.
While I don't identify as a Dom, for reasons to long to go into here, I do have Dom and DD/lg experience and I enjoy fulfilling my partner(s) desires and needs. I love feedback, verbal and non, & because I don't have a 'need' to be Dominant, I craft it to my partner, as their satisfaction fulfills me. I am somewhat new to rope but would like to learn and make pretty bundles of flesh. I am not submissive in the least but I will occasionally be topped. Also known to be a service top for those I near and dear.
I am open to a spectrum of relationships from friendship to play partner to fwb to romantically involved. I will reconsider monogamy, in the right situation.
Looking for a partner that delights and is protective of our time together however frequent or not that may be. Someone that truly enjoys my company (I will know), and someone who anticipates our next time together. Smart is non-negotiable. Curiosity and a sense of adventure is a must. Personality must click, key things are confidence and vulnerability, joy and gravitas, wonder and ennui. A cute nose helps!
I will admit sites like these perplex me. I have had some incredible experiences because of them...and developed deep relationships. But it has required lots sorting through scams and bad people. I have also had people I cared about just disappear when sh*t got too real or act like an addict and lose themselves in a bad relationship and destroy their other relationships in the process. Yet continue forward we must. I am ready and willing to try again.
If you made it this far definitely drop me a line, you deserve a prize!