Update - apparently I'm a good kisser and my finger skills are .. up there... in a good way.
I am married, here with permission (ENM). I am looking for a connection with a play partner to explore kink with; a lady to play with for a longer term regular meeting arrangement so we can scratch each other's BDSM itch.
More a pleasure Dom than a sadist, but happy to flog, spank and punish as or if the scene requires.
Well educated and personable - social meet is a prerequisite to play. I seek to have a safe, consensual, and fun D/s dynamic with plenty of feedback - we're here for a good time, so I want to know what you like and dislike.
if you're looking to relinquish control, to be controlled, played with, aroused and spanked then drop me a line.
I have my own flogger. It's a classy one.
, , anything illegal.