I am a safe, experienced, divorced dominant who is slim to medium in build. You would find me to be sensual and imaginative as a spanker/ disciplinarian as well as nurturing and attentive as a partner. I am divorced but currently single and would like to meet someone as a friend or could be more if the chemistry works. Ideally, I seek a woman who wants to express and explore her sub/bratty/masochistic side. I am caring with novices and will play to your limits if you are D/s experienced. Hopefully, you will enjoy sharing time together in both vanilla and kink and be my equal outside agreed areas. You may also be interested in the 1950s household or the Taken in Hand dynamic, but no worries if not. I am looking for an affectionate partner who shares my “kinks”, values and sense of sexual adventure. Too much to ask? Please note, I do not play on a first date. Let's enjoy coffee, cakes and discover whether we have any chemistry. It’s more respectful....no other agendas till later on.
On a more casual basis, although I am straight, I am happy to be a disciplinarian to a younger guy, say up to early thirties, if he is no taller than 5'9" (I am 5'8"

Desires and Fantasies
As for my preferences, I like a woman who is strong enough to retain her character, opinions and personality. I know that in some situations, she will be completely focused in pleasing her partner, her dominant; yet in others she is proudly her own person.
I seek a person who can enjoy sharing time together in both vanilla and kink who is an equal outside agreed areas. She may be interested in the 1950s household or the Taken in Hand dynamic.

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