Having been here for a couple of weeks now, it was suggested to me that I might take a fresh look at my profile and update it. So here I am.
I'm an English hippy chick living in Scotland. I thrive on the connections I have with the important people in my life, and the great outdoors. I'm not one for entertaining drama, or negative vibes and I'm very much a "my door is always open" person. I like to think I'm non-judgemental, down to earth and approachable. Always down for coffee, cake and a deep and meaningful conversation. In my free time, I can be found walking the Scottish hills, wild swimming in the lochs, listening to music, and spending hours (and a small fortune!) on a variety of arts and crafts. Shameless TV binge-watcher and big-book reader.
I joined the community here to learn about my own kinks and other peoples. My biggest lessons to date have been learning what I DON'T want. I've worked out that while I am submissive, I need a dom who can challenge me intellectually and emotionally, and expect that back from me. I suppose that makes me a little bratty. Funishment > Punishment, mostly. I would like a dynamic built on a strong vanilla foundation and an appreciation for self-care, self-love, and personal and relationship growth. I want to find someone who can educate me, push my boundaries and yet treat me with the care and respect I deserve. I want a bond.
I would love to make friends within the community. I hope to continue learning, and experience some in-person meets and events. Always down to chat with like-minded people and I can often be found in the Chat Room Lobby, but I'm absolutely not looking for T/b, M/s or D/s dynamic offers in opening pms, please and thanks.
Desires and Fantasies
Wanting to explore rope play, impact play and sensory deprivation.