I am 40 years old, I have been in the BDSM lifestyle for 21 years. I'm very well versed in most things to do with BDSM and the community. I do go to and host Munches and teach 101 classes. I truly believe that no one's learning journey is ever complete. no one knows everything there is to know and if you aren't willing to admit you might have something to learn, you are not a good partner.