I'm interested in exploring for now. That means talking and exchanging ideas, thoughts, stories. If something builds out of that I'll count myself lucky but I wouldn't be disappointed to have gained a few like-minded friends from experiences here and nothing more.
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One night/no strings isn't really my style. I have done it wouldn't rule it out with the right combination of circumstances and person, but I'm not here seeking out that type of deal.
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Not really sure what to expect so keeping an open mind ?
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A few people have been curious about what I'm into so here's a few words...
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I like being an integral part of the artwork that is a tie. The feel of the rope, sometimes bristly, sometimes silky, on my skin is incredibly sensual. it has a weight and solidity to it that can be calming and arousing.
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A really good question from a contact had me totally stumped: do I enjoy the physical sensation of being tied up, or the mental space that comes with it? I really couldn't answer. Sometimes lines of rope will hug, rub or squeeze in exquisitely sensitive places and sensation triumphs. Others the vulnerability of being immobile is the key. The trust handed to your rigger with your freedom to move is immense and I do feel more closely bonded with them during and after a session. This can be purely platonic but even so is intense.
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Outside of rope, my interests are varied. I prefer to blend kink with vanilla time. Perhaps because I enjoy putting myself and control into my partner's hands most of the time (most: not all). I'm not entirely submissive but do enjoy a confident man who will take what he wants. Being overpowered and pinned down under someone stronger, faster, bigger are some of my favourite places to be...
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One last comment aimed specifically at only a few apples in the barrel: there aren't nudes or nearly nudes in my private photos and you don't have a right to access them. Those photos are full face and for those I trust with the ability to identify me in the street. Given my kinks perhaps you can understand why I don't wish anyone and everyone to be able to!