I'm a curvy red head with a dominant personality outside of the bedroom - within it is a different story however. If you can’t handle a sprinkle of sass/banter in a sub, I’m not for you.

I’ve had two Dominants in my life after only embracing my submissive side late in life - one was just play for about 18 months, one was a LTR that turned into a romantic relationship for several years… but in many respects I consider myself still fairly new to the scene and have things to learn and discover.

At the risk of sounding like a snob; badly written messages/ poor grammar/spelling is a turn off. I’m a conversationalist. All these “nice tits” / “hey how are you” one liners or even worse, just a “hello” do absolutely nothing for me, and won’t garner a response. If you’re going to message me, at least make it something I want to actually respond too… and honestly, how often do these “hey wanna suck my dick tonight?” messages actually work for you? Ask yourself that before you send it as I can’t imagine your hit rate is high.

Desires and Fantasies
Somnophiliac with Daddy leaning desires, and a preference for black men / uncircumcised cocks.

I enjoy CNC, sleeping, drunk, limp, fantasies and role plays. I'm a fan of realism and authenticity, I’m open to collaborate and incorporating other peoples kinks/fetishes, and like some taboo elements. This is my main kink but there is more to my kink list than this - but this is what I’m actively looking to explore.