I emerged into the world of kink from a puddle of slime located somewhere in the Kingdom of Splosh. A distant and far away anarchic land teeming with bratty types armed with custard pies rather than glitter to toss at authority figures (with inevitable consequences), free-spirits indulging their instincts to play with their food or wallow in the mud and groan-inducing pungeon masters.

After a brief stint running and creating content for a website I went off in exploration of various other kinks slowly developing what I call my game developer/player dynamic where I create the rules for games design either for fun emotional adventures or to aid personal development and determine an appropriate forfeit based on the reward the player wishes to try win and then post-game switch in my dichotomies of dominance vs submission, naughty vs nice, masculinity vs femininity and order vs chaos to deliver on the reward, punishment or roleplay scene the player has won or lost.

I picked up some experience in BDSM areas such as roleplay, D/s, non-rope bondage (rope and well lubricated bodies don’t mix well) and erotic whilst exploring these kinks I am hoping to explore more traditional approaches to BDSM for which I’m more a relative newbie but I’m always keen to learn new skills and love to spread pleasure so hope to be able to find someone with whom I can build a mutually beneficial dynamic that includes indulging our personal favourite kinks as well as explore and learn new ones.

Quick Personal Facts

Location – Primarily London based but travel around the UK a lot, am often in the South Wales/South West England and North West England regions roughly once a month.

Education – BSc. Combined STEM Hons (Software and Web Development focused route) & BSc. Psychology Hons.

Hobbies – Crazy/Mini-golf * Game Designer * Creative Writing * Cricket (Leg/Off Spin Bowler) * Ten Pin Bowling * Whitewater/Surf Kayaking * Baking (particularly cupcakes and pizzas).

Special Skills – Audio/Video Production and Editing * Graphic Design * 3D Modelling & Animation * Web & Software Development * DIY/Engineering * Hypnosis

Disabilities – A.D.D. * Dyspraxia (can mean I struggle to communicate succinctly – have attempt to keep most my waffling to my kinky confessions below) * Bipolar 2 (have been successfully managing it for at least 10 years now, please feel free to ask more if it might be a concern) * Aphantasia

Relationship Style – Polyamorous (See Kinky Confessions for more on this) \ Currently seeing one vanilla partner for 10+ years, seeking other kinky partners with their full knowledge and support.

Desires and Fantasies
Many and varied. I switch in four different dimensions: Dom vs Sub, Order vs Chaos, Naughty vs Nice and Masculine vs Feminine that allows me to fulfil many different types of role play fantasies.

My approach to domination is influenced by my beliefs about leadership in that when leading I would not ask anyone to do anything I wouldn’t be prepared to do myself. I take the same sort of approach with my domination (though with the additional caveat that I’m happy top for things I would want to submit to if you request it be part of our dynamic) but in general if you want to try win the right for “revenge” at any point you’re welcome to try ;-).

I’m naturally bratty whether in Dom or Sub mode. I’ve always been a bit of a class clown/goofball and so my bratty pranks, jokes or loophole exploitation are motivated by a desire to make my partner laugh. But my overwhelming desire in sub mode is to please so if you ever wish me to stop for a scene or partnership feel free to ask. As a bratty Dom I manage and celebrate brattiness in my subs, I will happily respond to a brat’s pranks with some of my own – you hide my toys and I’ll hide you vibrator’s batteries, but there are occasions I may require your best behaviour.

My nice side tends towards sensual pleasures, real world adventures, praise, emotional connection and tantra. My naughty side is drawn towards teasing, orgasm denial, mindfucks, tickle **, mild but most loves to enticing people to indulge their darkest desires, perhaps with an audience, that part of them is embarrassed to admit they enjoy.

My gender switch at the milder settings can change whether I take a more protective and authoritative or nurturing and enticing approach to a role. Dialled to the max I have at one end primal masculine competitive urges and ravishing lust for Primal Dom v Primal Dom scenes, rough sex or CNC roleplay. And if ***d to the other extreme with sexual receptivity turned to the max you may turn me into your own Sissy Slut to objectify, sexualise and use as you please or for CNC revenge.