Ethically non-monogamous- only looking for NSA, friends with benefits or for friends in general. I'm in a relationship with a non-kinky partner who is aware, and happy for me to meet like-minded people for the above.



I'm a laid back, experienced guy in his 30's with his shit together. I live in Glasgow but travel in the UK, Ireland, mainland Europe and sometimes the US for work.

Outside of kink I enjoy outdoorsy stuff, hiking, camping, cycling or rock climbing (boulder, mostly indoor)

I've been in the lifestyle for well over a decade. my kinks are mostly based around being dominant with a focus on orgasm control and / but clashed with intimate tender affection.

I love the juxtaposition between kinky sex and tender intimacy that only exists in a BDSM relationship.

Building trust with a sub who enjoys the release/escape of giving up control and revelling in her sexuality is what I am looking for.

Safe words, trust, aftercare and cuddles are important. I'm not into really harsh Dom behaviour and prefer play with people who love to be submissive, although I'm not opposed to the odd brat who needs tamed.

Toys. Gags. Collars. Mid level impact play, Training, Filthy, kinky satisfying sex and everything in between.

I also have a small switch side which I would indulge with the right person.