Dominant male in love with submissive women.
Dom male. Very open to chatting, making friends, or even hashing out some deep dark nasty fantasies. Only into women sexually but I embrace all kinds otherwise.

I'm also a geek with a need for humor. It certainly doesn't keep me from being serious, but I consider the ability to laugh at ourselves an indication of wisdom; the ability to find humor in our world is a sign of intelligence. The same way primitive humans probably saw a well muscled body covered in the of their enemies while maintaining a well wiped ass as a promise of survival potential, humor means you just might survive me long enough for both of us to have a little fun.

Hot peppers? I love spice. In my food, in my jokes and in my women, even in the gleam in my eye. The funny thing is that many woman who feel they are bland are often the spiciest. It's not about your performance to me as much as it is about your strength of character. If you are your own person then I'll probably enjoy spending time with you in whatever capacity.

Role play? Hell yeah! The ability to try out different experiences without having to own every aspect of them borders on magical.

Experimenting? Sign me up, then tell me what we're doing. However, I'm a cautious risk taker. I'll minimize the chance of actually or breakage and then jump in head first and try way too many of those things that I don't think will work out only because I know what I don't know. Half the things that touch me in my happy place today I only learned about recently so... there's only one way to find out what other fucked up things do it for me. And I could use a hand.

bdsmtest.org test results
100% Sadist
93% Rigger
92% Degrader
87% Voyeur
86% Dominant
76% Experimentalist
71% Daddy/Mommy
70% Exhibitionist
62% Master/Mistress
60% Ageplayer
53% Non-monogamist
49% Owner
43% Vanilla
42% Primal (Hunter)
40% Brat tamer
0% Switch100% Sadist
93% Rigger
92% Degrader
87% Voyeur
86% Dominant
76% Experimentalist
71% Daddy/Mommy
70% Exhibitionist
62% Master/Mistress
60% Ageplayer
53% Non-monogamist
49% Owner
43% Vanilla
42% Primal (Hunter)
40% Brat tamer
0% Switch

Desires and Fantasies
Though it's probably a turn off for most, rough play/sex (spankings, slapping, domination, etc.) makes me very affectionate and passionate afterwords. If there is such a thing as a tender sadist, or a sensual dominant then I might be that. ..maybe. I have been known to leave marks.

Like some, I had been feeling bad about my interests most of my life. A a woman in , or looking down, tied up or otherwise turns me on. Then I realized what turns me on is not those things but rather when those things turn her on. [gasm!]

I've long believed that one of the aspects of humanity that makes humans so interesting (and annoying) is that seemingly contrasting and mutually exclusive things can be true at the same time. So yes I want to dominate a woman, but only if she is strong enough to be worth dominating. Yes I enjoy her submission, but without her engagement and partnership in the things we do both in and out of that space, I cannot be engaged. Yes, I'd love to have primal sex with a woman who is bound and gagged, but if she can't hold a conversation, share things with me I've never thought of, or if she cannot bear to hear me ramble about my thoughts on humanity, physics, the future of space travel, the mongol empire, biomedical technology, psychology, etc. then she goes from being a toy (me: gets excited about playing and exploring the possibilities) to just being a toy (me: kicks over dull lifeless wooden block and sighs forlornly).

Limits: (without question), urine (I'm pretty damn sure), underage (anything at all), and posting or recording video of me. Other than that? TBD