The thing I really enjoy about the BDSM community is the people you meet. Most of the people I know are creative and fun and know how to not take things too seriously. It's consensual and can be very safe and liberating. I've found that I enjoy being a top with impact and sensation. I also enjoy being a rope bottom and experimenting with new ideas.


I have a lot of vanilla interests, too many to list. If it involves the outdoors and/or water, I'm probably in. Lately, I've gotten into making floggers. As my friend would say, I love making weapons of ass destruction.


I typically only play at parties and for me, that's the best way to meet someone.


I enjoy...

Being an impact top
Rope bottom
Sensation top or bottom
I like...

Open mindedness
Creativity
Honesty
To laugh
Great random conversation
Kayaking
Hiking
Plants and gardening
Dogs
Learning new things
Exploring things new to me
Currently...

Learning impact
Learning sensation play
Leather working, and braiding
Learning mindfulness
Trying to be healthier/fit

09/24

I stay away from hookups and swinging and receiving impact. It's just not my thing.