Hi. I'm tall, broad shouldered, bearded and, underneath that hat, bald!
I lean towards being a dom, but a more gentle, sensual one. So I will spank you, * you and pleasure you relentlessly, but I'll kiss it better afterwards. And aftercare will involve snuggling.
I have found that I enjoy spanking. I've used a couple of floggers; a short crop; a leather strop I cut from a large, and very thick, piece of leather I have (very slappy and stingy!); a hazel switch; and most recently a leather spanking paddle that I made myself. It's got a strip of springy steel inside it, so I can spank very quickly with it. Best of all though; a pair of wooden spoons from Morrisons! Spoon drumming is my new thing.
Leatherworking is a new hobby of mine too. So I'm exploring how I can combine the two interests (such as by making masks and harnesses, and the spanking paddle of course).
Desires and Fantasies**
People to click with. To chat to and explore BDSM with. And to spank, tie up, and tease for our mutual pleasure of course. But it is just as important to me to help you explore your interests, desires and kinks as well. Plus I will make you a cup of tea afterwards. I also do a nice line in whispering into your ear, especially if I've been shouting, as my voice gets quite deep and husky then. Love the idea of standing behind a lady, my arm around their neck, pulling them towards me and lifting their head up. And then whispering unspeakably naughty things into their ear as I nuzzle their hair and neck. Any volunteers?
Cannot say no to a lady in lingerie. And don't start me on ladies in hats! Your size, shape, looks and so on are less important than us finding we have a connection.