BDSM in Royal Military Academy

Does anyone know a decent site as friendly and genuine as this one for married folk who are looking for people in a similar situation.
UK only and not one that's full of scammers and frauds or one that is not going to rip you off.....
Asking for a friend 😉😉

Now please don't all pounce on me at once (as if).
but i really don't get the nose rings or piercing to the centre of the nose.
looks like you are either live stock waiting to be tethered or have been out in the cold and in need of a tissue....

Sorry... just an old mans opinion...