Sub seeking Dom

I am currently looking for an experienced Pleasure/Soft/Daddy Dominant caregiver to care for, teach and guide me. Not 24/7. Not here for hookups or online only. Not interested in submissive men.

I don’t want to be someone temporary to fill a gap in someone’s life. I don’t want to be anyone’s ‘rebound’ fling. I want someone who wants me as I am, and not as a temporary measure.

I am hoping to find connection, care, protection, safety and nurture. I do prefer slightly younger men because I’m young at heart, but I’m also a professional, independent and staunchly feminist woman who has looked after herself her whole life. I am strong and fierce and brave. I just need a bit more care than some other people.

I am happy to chat online, but I also want real-life connection with the right person/people, aged between 35 and 50.

Happy to travel within reason.

Things and stuff that I like:
gigs
cinema
beaches
travelling
tea
cats
box sets
plants
science
scuba
swimming
the sea
lochs
mid century anything
eating out
pals
singing in a community choir
being a good girl ☺️
being a naughty girl

If you message me, please be respectful.

I am not interested in anyone who hasn’t read my profile or who has not put any effort into their own.

Hard
extreme , extreme sadism, , knives, permanent marks, no TPE, no 24/7, no fin dom, no payments, I won’t brat , NO SUB MEN

Soft
looking to explore these slowly and safely so they will need to be discussed. Will consider most things, but they need to be explored gradually. Just ask me about something and I’ll let you know my thoughts.

Boundaries (not exhaustive)
If we start something, I expect regular communication, affection and play. I want to be supported and cherished. Please don’t lovebomb me and then ghost me or reduce contact once play has been initiated.
please don’t call me bitch (slut/whore are fine), no unsolicited dick pics, not interested in age play (pigtails, colouring in, blankies etc), ages 35 plus please (I won’t reply to anyone under 35). No fantasists please. As in, please be honest and please don’t make up stories or experience that you don’t actually have. Please be able to back up your chat, claims, abilities and experience in real life.

Tell me your boundaries from the start please.

I will ask you to prove that you are who your profile says you are at some point, even if your Fet profile is verified. This could be by way of photo, video, phone call, video call, voice note etc. Please do not be offended when I do so. It is for my safety and security (which should also be important to you). I am extremely happy to do the same for you. If this is an issue, you need not message me in the first instance. If this becomes an issue for you while we are communicating then, regretfully, I will need to end our conversation. I am sure you understand why.