I have a slightly more unusual background, growing up across various countries but with boarding school in the UK. Think Hogwarts but with rugby instead of quidditch, and school holidays sailing in Lagos harbour or camping on a Libyan beach.

As an adult I became Australian for a while but got sick of the flies and have now settled back in civilisation once more where you can be befuddled by contemporary art and drink in the street.

I'm here because I'm into kink, particularly the deeper side of D/s, power exchange, control etc. It's what's going on in the mind that makes the physical stuff so intensely satisfying. If you're the kind of woman who finds a certain peace and freedom in surrender, or you simply find it a turn on being told what to do then we might get along very well.

My kink interests are fairly wide ranging but I will say I'm not a pleasure dom or service top, I lean towards the rougher or more primal side with a healthy dose of aftercare.

Vanilla wise music lights my life, whether concerts, the occasional rave, or torturing the violin. Also travel, particularly to more exotic or remote places. My holiday this year is travelling the Pamir Highway where I'm hoping the smattering of Russian I know will come in handy.

Violating trust, permanent damage.