London based with a blend of firm direction, intellectual curiosity, and a surprisingly easy-going nature (most of the time, anyway).

Cultured, responsible, and fundamentally kind, I lead with confidence but value connection and a shared sense of humour above all else. I'm looking for a woman who enjoys the art of surrender. I'm particularly drawn to the deeper psychological currents of D/s and power exchange – the mental and emotional intimacy, the trust, the shared exploration. A partner who finds genuine delight in pleasing, who sees submission not as weakness but as a profound form of strength and devotion, would be ideal. My dominant style is perhaps more primal than a pleasure dom, but remains focused on an intuitive connection that balances moments of intensity with genuine tenderness. Responsibility and care are key in how I approach any dynamic.

Outside of kink, you can often find me seeking out experiences that expand the mind and soul. I love travel, especially to places that feel untouched – think vast deserts or remote mountain ranges. Back in London I'm equally at home appreciating a ***ting or installation, or seeing live music, enjoying everything from classical to electronic.

If the idea of a deep, mentally engaging dynamic, built on trust and balanced with shared adventures both kinky and cultural, resonates with you, I'd love to hear from you.

My main limit is violating trust or causing any lasting , whether physical or emotional. I'm also not a fan of .