Hello, I'm Fen. I'm trans, not yet physically transitioning, and I'm ideally looking for a relationship, or whatever other stimulating conversation I might find in the meantime. I'm switchy, and currently leaning sub. I'm attracted to feminine people.

I'm an optimistic realist, by which I mean I hope for the best, but understand that things won't always go that way. I'm supportive and cuddly, and if you like puns, you'll love my sense of humour. I'm a big gamer, Monster Hunter, Ark, Dark Souls, and a fair few others. If you're shy, asking me about gaming is a great cold open. I love nature, especially ecology, and sci-fi and fantasy are my go-to genres.

Kink-wise, I'm control focused. On the sub side, I like to be tied, teased, and ordered around so I can be a good girl. On the domme side, I'd like a good girl I can tie, tease and order around. I'm fairly flexible for a lot of kinks; I like turning people on, so often it's hot to me if it's hot to you.

Ideally, I'm looking for a relationship that's mostly comfy and affectionate, but can turn naughty without warning. It could just be a lazy Sunday, when somebody walks out in thigh high boots with the fuzzy cuffs in one hand and a vibrator in the other. Not 24/7, but one where any (reasonable, consenting) moment can turn D/S.

Nothing illegal
Nothing that could cause illness or (spankings ok, knife play not)
No raceplay or gender play
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